Self-Esteem Booster of the Week: Set Aside Time for Personal Development Terri Lomax August 27, 2013 Set aside one hour every morning for personal development matters. Meditate, visualize your day, read inspirational texts to set the tone of your day, listen to motivational tapes or read great literature. Starting the day off well is a powerful strategy for self-renewal and personal effectiveness. Continue reading...
Mocha Girl on a Mission: Benita Arceneaux Terri Lomax August 18, 2013 3 Comments I can't say that I have experienced any obstacles any more drastic than many other Black American Girls. Believe me, there are many that have much worse experiences. I was always taught that obstacles are just challenges or stepping stones that make us stronger. Continue reading…
Self-Esteem Booster of the Week: Create Your Own Affirmations Terri Lomax August 18, 2013 1 Comment On the back of a business card or small index card, write out a statement such as: “I like and accept myself just the way I am” “I am the master of my destiny” “I am somebody, I love myself, I believe in myself.” Carry the card with you. Continue reading...
How to Look Fashionable Without a Sense of Style- While on Budget! Terri Lomax August 18, 2013 2 Comments My favorite color is pink, though I'm sure you got the memo just by looking at my blog's design. A few months ago I found the cutest pink blazer at Sears, and it was on sale. I bought the blazer but unfortunately I really didn't know how to dress it up. Continue reading…
My Poisonous Prince Charming: Why I Stayed in a Controlling Relationship Terri Lomax August 13, 2013 4 Comments A couple days ago, me and my bestie, Amina, were having girl talk, as I unpacked my new apartment. Our conversation shifted to relationships and we both reminisced on the B.S. that we've put up with in the past. Continue reading...
Self-Esteem Booster of the Week: Dress Up Terri Lomax August 12, 2013 One thing you should never do, is dress how you feel, unless of course you’re feeling fantastic! If you’re feeling down and sluggish, dress how you want to feel! Anytime you have to go somewhere, even if its to run errands, you should always try to dress up a little. Continue reading...
Mocha Girl Cooks: Rich and Moist Cornbread with Jiffy Mix Terri Lomax August 9, 2013 90 Comments I never knew good recipes were such hot commodities until I went searching for a cornbread recipe. There were a ton of Google searches asking for Jiffy Mix recipes. I was among many who were in "desperate" need of a new recipe. Continue reading…
Self-Esteem Booster of the Week: Compliment Yourself Terri Lomax August 6, 2013 We’re often our own worst critic, try complimenting yourself from time to time. When you try on a new outfit think about the positives instead of the negatives . Tell yourself that you’re beautiful or even that your hair looks nice. Continue reading...
Mocha Girl on a Mission: Aiesha Myles Terri Lomax August 6, 2013 Hi lovely people I am Aiesha (Esh) Myles, currently a college senior majoring in mass communications with high hopes to becoming a motivational speaker. I would have to say my biggest drive would be optimism. I strive to seek it in any situation presented to myself. Continue reading…
How To Stay Positive When All Hell Is Breaking Loose Terri Lomax August 2, 2013 3 Comments May 2013 was a bittersweet month. The "sweet" consisted of me graduating with my Master's degree and preparing to move to New York City, to start a new job. My family was so happy for me. Shoot, I was also happy for myself. Continue reading…