How to Forgive… Even When it Hurts Terri Lomax September 17, 2013 8 Comments I always viewed forgiveness as a very limited and narrow process. In theory, I'd give each person I met a "forgiveness allotment" which, depending on the nature of the relationship, would abide by the three strikes law. If someone betrayed me more than 3 times, they got cut off; plain and simple. Continue reading...